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  • By TyShawnna S. Williams for Insidemyweedbag

    Engagement vs Happiness

    The historical roots of cosmetic procedures can be traced back to ancient civilizations, where people utilized various natural ingredients and techniques to enhance their appearance. Over time, these practices evolved, and in more recent history, vintage Hollywood starlets became synonymous with a carefully crafted image that often involved both surgical and nonsurgical cosmetic interventions. These iconic figures contributed to the popularization of beauty standards and the idea of enhancing one’s natural features.

    Acknowledging this long-standing history is crucial, especially in understanding the evolution of cosmetic procedures. However, it’s equally important to recognize the contemporary influence of social media on the normalization of such practices. In today’s digital age, the pervasive nature of social media influencer culture has undoubtedly played a significant role in shaping societal attitudes towards cosmetic procedures. The widespread visibility of influencers showcasing their own cosmetic enhancements, along with endorsements from beauty brands, has contributed to the increased acceptance and even encouragement of these procedures.

    As social media continues to have a profound impact on how beauty and self-image are perceived, the intersection of technology, celebrity influence, and the beauty industry has created a landscape where cosmetic procedures are not only normalized but often glamorized. The aspirational imagery and lifestyle presented on social media platforms further contribute to the allure of these procedures, blurring the lines between reality and idealized beauty standards.

    In essence, while the historical legacy of cosmetic procedures is undeniable, the contemporary influence of social media has further propelled their widespread acceptance and integration into mainstream culture. Understanding this dynamic landscape is essential for engaging in meaningful discussions about beauty standards, self-expression, and the impact of digital media on societal norms. This intertwining of historical practices and modern influences highlights the complex evolution of beauty ideals and the ways in which they are perpetuated in society. The historical context provides a foundation for recognizing the long-standing relationship between beauty and self-care, while the contemporary influence of social media sheds light on the evolving nature of beauty standards and their impact on individuals’ self-perception and self-expression. By acknowledging and exploring this intersection, we can gain insight into the multifaceted nature of beauty, and the role that media plays in shaping and reflecting societal norms and individual experiences.

    In today’s digital landscape, social media algorithms are meticulously designed to elicit user engagement rather than prioritizing individual happiness or contentment. Consider the impact of consistently engaging with social media content that depicts individuals who do not align with one’s own appearance or with conventional notions of beauty. Such repeated engagement effectively communicates to the platform a preference for content that may evoke feelings of inadequacy or insecurity rather than empowerment.

    Furthermore, this engagement fuels the platform’s targeted marketing efforts, as it leverages the data to tailor content and advertisements to the user. The implications of this dynamic warrant careful consideration, highlighting the intricate interplay between social media, influencer culture, and personal well-being. As it is no secret that cosmetic professionals are willing to offer you whatever they think you will afford yourself the luxury of, even with no need for it.

    The influence of social media on self-perception and the reinforcement of beauty standards cannot be overstated. The constant exposure to idealized images and curated lifestyles can breed comparison and dissatisfaction, leading to a detrimental impact on mental health and overall well-being. This phenomenon is particularly prevalent among impressionable demographics, such as adolescents and young adults, who may internalize these unrealistic standards as the norm, perpetuating a cycle of discontent and striving for unattainable ideals.

    It is crucial to recognize the power dynamics at play within the realm of social media and the beauty industry. The seamless integration of sponsored content, product placements, and influencer endorsements blurs the line between genuine expression and commercial interest, creating an environment where authenticity is often overshadowed by marketing strategies and monetary incentives. This commercialization of self-image can lead to distorted perceptions of self-worth and an unrelenting pursuit of an unattainable physical ideal.

    In light of these considerations, individuals are increasingly encouraged to cultivate a critical mindset when engaging with social media content and to actively seek diversity and authenticity in the content they consume. By challenging the prevailing standards of beauty and promoting inclusivity, users can contribute to a more empowering and supportive digital environment. Additionally, fostering a healthy relationship with social media involves setting boundaries, practicing self-validation, and prioritizing holistic well-being over external validation and comparison.

    The convergence of social media, influencer culture, and the beauty industry signifies the need for a fundamental shift in societal attitudes and industry practices. By advocating for transparency, diversity, and ethical advertising standards, we can strive to create a digital landscape that celebrates individual uniqueness and promotes positive self-image. It is imperative to underscore the importance of mindfulness and discernment in navigating the digital sphere, recognizing the potential impact on mental and emotional well-being, and actively challenging the prevailing narratives that perpetuate unrealistic beauty ideals.


    Examples of this Rationale: Kylie Jenner

    Since around her 18th birthday, we have seen dramatic cosmetic enhancements to say the least from Kylie Jenner. The original speculation circa 2013-14 was primarily regarding the idea that she clearly had something done to her lips. Although, it was not something she was at that time willing to be forthcoming about.


    Kylie Jenner’s transformations and the discussions surrounding them have traversed the realms of beauty, celebrity culture, and the impact of social media on perceptions of beauty. The evolution of her public persona has sparked conversations about self-image, confidence, and the societal pressure to conform to certain beauty standards. As she navigated the scrutiny and speculation, Kylie also embraced her journey, eventually sharing her experiences, challenges, and growth with her audience.

    In the age of constant media exposure and the ubiquitous presence of social platforms, the narrative of Kylie’s transformations reflects not only personal choices but also the broader influence of digital connectivity on personal narratives. The intersecting worlds of fame, beauty, and social media have woven a complex tapestry around her experiences, shaping and reshaping public perceptions over time.

    Kylie’s evolution stands as a testament to the power of individual agency and self-expression, as well as the malleability of public narratives in the digital age. It offers a window into the interplay of external pressures, personal decisions, and the shaping of one’s identity in the spotlight.

    So I write all this to ask you, is it really a preventative botox when you have no lines to fill but your insecurities?? Think about it.

  • August & September Favorites

    In my active attempt to get back to revert from sole social media opinions and build my own platform I decided I wanted to start doing monthly favorites. I’ve been taking notes keeping a log for the last two months so I decided to include August & September together.

    August 2025

    Ioni Waterproof Kohl Liner in Black

    I’ve really been loving this particular eyeliner, it states put all day especially as I work in education and don’t always have time to touch up my daily eyeliner. It is amazing on the waterline but just smooth enough to smudge if necessary.

    Maybelline Matte Ink in ‘Insider’

    I’ve been searching for a cool toned peach shade of nude for fall, as a child of the 2000’s I love a concealer lip-isque kind of a look. This one definitely fits the bill, along with other one lipstick on this list.

    Loreal Foundation Powder in Deep (as eyeshadow)

    I got this foundation powder to use as a bronzer over summer then one day decided to use it as an eyeshadow as I didn’t have my normal day time smokey eye shade. I ended up loving the way it looked so much that it has fully become my day time smokey eye shade over the last two months. I looooove it for a quick all day smokey eye, apply kohl to the waterline and take this on a big fluffy crush all over.

    Elf Satin Lipstick in ‘O Face’

    A true 2000’s concealer lip shade, this shade is super cunt with a black-brown lip liner. I wore it for picture day at work and I thought I looked so much like my mom in the 2000’s, you couldn’t tell me anything.

    ORS Relaxer in Regular Strength

    I switched my relaxer in August after not liking under-processing I was seeing from my previous brand of box relaxer and let me tell you, this is my jam!!! It is a pixie cut girls dream, especially since I was growing my hair to a 60’s bobcrop so I can rely on my micro pixie for the sleekness I am used to. I’ve been waiting 5 weeks rather than 4 and with this no lye

    Vaseline in aloe scent

    I guess this is me coming out as The President of the ‘I Love Vaseline Fanclub’. Especially for body care, vaseline is that girl and the scent of this one just makes me love it more. I used up an entire large jar over the course of the summer because I use it for everything. Basing my hairline and brows for relaxing or dying?? Vaseline. All over moisture? Vaseline. Protecting my skin when I shave my brows? Vaseline. I use it for everything!

    Kim Kardishan perfume oil from the BSS

    Lovely, soft powdery scent that lingers all day, no notes.

    Game of Ice & Fire audiobook

    Toni Morrison ‘Sula’

    September Favorites

    Black Filofax (A5) I got off Facebook Marketplace in a set for $5

    I mean, do I need to say more??? I got a steal of 2 a5 size Filofaxes for $5 cash, one I am using for my journal/planner, the Black one I am using as creative journal. I am currently working on new art so it has been perfect to stuff in my purse for all day brainstorming.

    Ruby Kisses Waterproof Eyeliner in ‘Glittery Black’

    This eyeliner has been living in my purse makeup bag for the last month. Smooth, very easy to apply and gives a subtle smoke to the eyes on days I don’t want a full on daytime smokey eye.

    LA Colors Iridescent Lipgloss in ‘Glazed Donut’

    Another favorite that has been renting space in my purse everyday of the month. Gorgeous with just a lipliner, especially gorgeous with a concealer lip as a lipstick topper.

    LA Colors Lip Liner in ‘Black-Brown’

    My everyday lip liner, I wear it with every lipstick or lipgloss I wear honestly.

    Bigen Semi Permanent Color in Blue Black

    This is my current color in my pixie cut, as I am growing my heart out currently. The rinse applies well after my relaxer and is easy to touch up.

    Danessa Myricks Blurring Flushed in Jubilee

    This has been my everyday blush and now that its a week into October, it still is honestly. Perfect barely there blush that gives you a nice flush of color, looks like you’ve been running.

    Sidenote: I’m a blush addict so I always like my blush to look like I am hot or truly flushed aka waaaay too much blush lol.

    And with that, those are my monthly favorites for August & September. I’ll try to be less vain next month but what can I say I’m a virgo & it was my birthday month lol.

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